Think about it. It's dumb. Pretending you are "hard to get", showing atention, but not too much or acting like an asshole. Why is it so important to have such social games. It's ridicules. Why not just beeing yourself? If you will be rejected, it means what you don't fit with the other person. Just talk, be friends and look if he/she suits you and do you suit him/her. If he/she does, it will go natural. 100% guarantee. You will talk and kiss naturally from your insides(only if the other person likes you, if you didn't understand). You don't need to do anything. So stop playing these games. Of course you can do "ass kissing"... I know sometimes it comes natural to say beautiful words.
When I talk to people on this topic, they agree with my opinion, but they still do this crap. It's like "I can't change anything, so I will just play-along!". Of course you can, but you can do it in your or my way at least x) Just talk, talk, talk and thats it. Trust me it works. It's my modest opinion or simply "the truth". And from now on, stop talking flipping crap like "girls like unreachable guys" or vise versa.
